Welcome to 2021! We first get to celebrate that we have been able to turn the page from 2020 and see what life can bring for us now â even though some may say it hasnât started off much better.
While there is always joy and excitement and a sense of a fresh start, diabetes doesnât start over. Itâs there every day, whether we are willing to work with it or not.
I think that is one of the many things I wrestle with as a T1D parent: showing up on the days where even I donât want to hassle with it. But putting on the strong face is the choice I get to make. I mean, letâs be honest â there have been a lot of things that we faced in 2020.
Personally, we started 2020 with Logan getting the flu, at the same time we were starting with the Dexcom CGM. I was so excited to get him started! But then battling the high sugars with being sick and seeing them constantly with the Dexcom, I learned very quickly what everyone warns you about…the CGM can also be too much information!
Then COVID struck, and we got to try to explain to our kids why we werenât going to Great Wolf Lodge. There is this virus that we donât know about and we donât want to take any extra risks.
And who really enjoyed having to shut down your childâs requests over and over again to have friends over to play?! Logan is a social kid; he thrives on talking to people. And when I have that conversation of not feeling comfortable having his friends over because I donât know how careful they have been…that immediately in his head says, âwhat, you donât think my friends are smart?! You just donât want me to have any fun!â One of those days I really didnât want to show up for the diabetes. I didnât like having that conversation. It was heart-crushing, actually.
There were a lot of heart-crushing conversations with kids this past year, diabetes or not. But to have a child in a âhigh riskâ category just feels … extra hard.
And hereâs the thing. We still did it. We are still doing it. We are still teaching our kids to face the hard days, or hard months. Because no matter how many calendar pages we get to flip into a new year, the reality is still that there are hard days with diabetes.
So how do you face the hard days? For me, I celebrate the little stuff. I am a gratitude fanatic! So much so that it really drives my family crazy. But I donât think there is a wrong way to be grateful. So I celebrate the overnight stretches of near-perfect blood sugars. I celebrate when I calculate the carbs and extend the insulin just right for pizza night. Those things feel like hitting the lottery!
So celebrate yourself and your kids! Celebrate when things go well, so we donât have to spend so much time worrying when they get hard.